Need a little help on a personal issue

[Ryu # 20]

I was expecting more detailed descriptions on what yall have in common and what about her personality affects u in a good way.  The little things that make u like her.  From what u said it seems u "love" (and I cant stress those quotation marks enough) her because she's the only girl that hasnt treated u like sh*t or the first to treat u well.  Take it from a guy who blew hella chances, there are others.  What u have there isnt really love.  U idolize this girl cause she one if not the only girl whose nice to u.  Ur on a road to destruction goin on like this.  I would like u to go into more detail about the "what we have in common " thing.  Also (I cant believe im saying this)  Whats her star sign?  If its in the stars u might have a shot.  I'm wit Nutpatch on the waiting for 20 years thing.  U dont wanna be 40 and single waiting on a college almost sweetheart.  

BUT ON THE OTHER HAND!!!!  A good way to get wit a girl is through her friends.  Try that.  I mean whats the worst that could happen.

I've described something to Lord of Saiyans on the previous page, I can't think of any further descriptions. It is not *just* the way she makes me feel.

Her star sign? She's Leo. But I don't know mine (I was born on January 20th. Some say I'm Capricorn some others I'm Aquarius).

Again I must differ on the waiting for 20 years thing. I've got nothing else to look for than her.

And finally, her friends might help me, but she's been with her boyfriend for 4 years. I don't want to cause anybody trouble or harm: Not her, not her friends and not her boyfriend. I got no strength, faith, will or chance to fight left.

But if anybody must suffer, better me than anybody else by my fault.

[AceWonder20]

Hmmm well all I can say is go all out or dont go at all.  Do anything and I mean anything to get her or not.  Whatever u do is on u man.  I wish u luck and happiness.   

[Ryu # 20]

Hmmm well all I can say is go all out or dont go at all.  Do anything and I mean anything to get her or not.  Whatever u do is on u man.  I wish u luck and happiness.   

What are you referring to with "Go all out or don't go at all?" I mean, what would you have in mind?

[AceWonder20]

Hmmm well all I can say is go all out or dont go at all.  Do anything and I mean anything to get her or not.  Whatever u do is on u man.  I wish u luck and happiness.   

What are you referring to with "Go all out or don't go at all?" I mean, what would you have in mind?

I meant if u really want her do whatever it takes to get her or do nothing.  Suffering resolves nothing.  Ill get back to u on the idea thing.

[Ryu # 20]

I hope doing "anything it takes" doesn't mean telling her to dump her boyfriend or do anything like that. Besides impossible, that's DISHONOURFUL.

Like I said, I will not do anybody harm or cause them trouble. If that leads me to suffering, so be it.

[juelz aka wolfi]

she got an older sis?

[Ryu # 20]

She says she's got an older brother.

[juelz aka wolfi]

how bout a cousin?

[Ryu # 20]

Ain't got no idea. Why do you ask?

Anyways, I'm about to die. Three days ago I stayed the night again, and yesterday I went to bed crying again. I knew what I was talking about when I said I wouldn't be able to move on. I think I got a wish for Christmas and New Year: I just want a chance...

[juelz aka wolfi]

well the reason i was askin was you could find mo info on here but anyway
u remind me of that guy from that film 10 things i hate about you
anyway as i always say to peeps that are in the same situation patience is a great thing in life w8 till something gud happens or gets in ur grasp and dont not let go

[Ryu # 20]

You know? I've had a conversation with her last Friday, I'll transcribe it (it was on MSN Messenger) just because it looks interesting.

Julieta (her): Marian (normal name abbreviation), I'd like to ask you something that hasn't to do with college.

Mariano (myself): Please tell me. I'll answer anything.

Julieta: Maybe I'd just like to tell you something.
I don't know if I did something wrong, but I got into your Fotolog page yesterday. And seeing what you wrote made me really sad. (Note: It was REO Speedwagon lyrics of "Can't Fight This Feeling Anymore", a sad love song)
I think it was about me... Am I wrong?

Mariano: At this extent I would be lying if I said no.
But you gotta keep in mind what I told you before:
This kind of things are like that. When something like last Wednesday (Turndown day) happens to one, he's got to think that there would be a high chance of the other person saying no.
It's impossible not to feel anything, because we're all human beings. But it depends on one to get over it.

Julieta: Yes, but what it says there is so sad and I don't want you to feel like that. Please count on me if you need to talk. But please don't feel bad.

Mariano: Why should I? It's what always happens in these cases. It's a normal thing and one has to understand.

There's nothing relevant after this. I decided to show it up here because I thought it might be important.

[juelz aka wolfi]

well ur damn rite it is now my friend confide in her make her feel special like shes the one you can only talk to

[KPT25]

well...it`s good to read she felt bad for turning you down(for the reasons she did) ,but the most important thing is that now she turned into a friend who could help you out whenever you need to talk about anything...that`s another kind of approach to her,and it`s much better than feeling lonely because of a turndown
 

[Nutty-Da-Kid]

You know? I've had a conversation with last Friday, I'll transcribe it (it was on MSN Messenger) just because it looks interesting.

Julieta (her): Marian (normal name abbreviation), I'd like to ask you something that hasn't to do with college.

Mariano (myself): Please tell me. I'll answer anything.

Julieta: Maybe I'd just like to tell you something.
I don't know if I did something wrong, but I got into your Fotolog page yesterday. And seeing what you wrote made me really sad. (Note: It was REO Speedwagon lyrics of "Can't Fight This Feeling Anymore", a sad love song)
I think it was about me... Am I wrong?

Mariano: At this extent I would be lying if I said no.
But you gotta keep in mind what I told you before:
This kind of things are like that. When something like last Wednesday (Turndown day) happens to one, he's got to think that there would be a high chance of the other person saying no.
It's impossible not to feel anything, because we're all human beings. But it depends on one to get over it.

Julieta: Yes, but what it says there is so sad and I don't want you to feel like that. Please count on me if you need to talk. But please don't feel bad.

Mariano: Why should I? It's what always happens in these cases. It's a normal thing and one has to understand.

There's nothing relevant after this. I decided to show it up here because I thought it might be important.

  Ha! i guess actin like a wimp really worked

[Ryu # 20]

You know? I've had a conversation with last Friday, I'll transcribe it (it was on MSN Messenger) just because it looks interesting.

Julieta (her): Marian (normal name abbreviation), I'd like to ask you something that hasn't to do with college.

Mariano (myself): Please tell me. I'll answer anything.

Julieta: Maybe I'd just like to tell you something.
I don't know if I did something wrong, but I got into your Fotolog page yesterday. And seeing what you wrote made me really sad. (Note: It was REO Speedwagon lyrics of "Can't Fight This Feeling Anymore", a sad love song)
I think it was about me... Am I wrong?

Mariano: At this extent I would be lying if I said no.
But you gotta keep in mind what I told you before:
This kind of things are like that. When something like last Wednesday (Turndown day) happens to one, he's got to think that there would be a high chance of the other person saying no.
It's impossible not to feel anything, because we're all human beings. But it depends on one to get over it.

Julieta: Yes, but what it says there is so sad and I don't want you to feel like that. Please count on me if you need to talk. But please don't feel bad.

Mariano: Why should I? It's what always happens in these cases. It's a normal thing and one has to understand.

There's nothing relevant after this. I decided to show it up here because I thought it might be important.

  Ha! i guess actin like a wimp really worked

I wasn't acting. I just got the balls not to be a wimp anymore.

[Nutty-Da-Kid]

You know? I've had a conversation with last Friday, I'll transcribe it (it was on MSN Messenger) just because it looks interesting.

Julieta (her): Marian (normal name abbreviation), I'd like to ask you something that hasn't to do with college.

Mariano (myself): Please tell me. I'll answer anything.

Julieta: Maybe I'd just like to tell you something.
I don't know if I did something wrong, but I got into your Fotolog page yesterday. And seeing what you wrote made me really sad. (Note: It was REO Speedwagon lyrics of "Can't Fight This Feeling Anymore", a sad love song)
I think it was about me... Am I wrong?

Mariano: At this extent I would be lying if I said no.
But you gotta keep in mind what I told you before:
This kind of things are like that. When something like last Wednesday (Turndown day) happens to one, he's got to think that there would be a high chance of the other person saying no.
It's impossible not to feel anything, because we're all human beings. But it depends on one to get over it.

Julieta: Yes, but what it says there is so sad and I don't want you to feel like that. Please count on me if you need to talk. But please don't feel bad.

Mariano: Why should I? It's what always happens in these cases. It's a normal thing and one has to understand.

There's nothing relevant after this. I decided to show it up here because I thought it might be important.

  Ha! i guess actin like a wimp really worked

I wasn't acting. I just got the balls not to be a wimp anymore.

u dont know happy i am to hear u say that

[Ryu # 20]

Yes, but still I got nothing. I'm still dying and the only wish I have is that I got a chance. I know I should feel better, but I wish I'd got a better result.

[street_shark]

its better to have loved and lost then to have never had loved before

[Ryu # 20]

That goes bust when you've loved and lost about 10 times before.

[street_shark]

well man sometimes you got to leave it up to fate. all my life, trust me, i was in your position. the shy type, the type that would take FOREVER just to say hi to a chick. then one day i got on aim, was talking to some friends, then out of nowhere, one of my friends sayed hey, my friend needs help with her h/w can you help her? of course i said yes, (i had never met her friend before but hey, i love helping people so why not?) well...long story short, ive been with that girl ever since. 4 1/2 years and still going strong. so man, i know it feels, you win some, you loose , but in the end when you got no one to win and nothing to loose...you just got to leave it up to fate.

the main things you need to worry about is establishing your career (no chick wants a hobo) and establishing yourself. get some confidence, raise your self esteem, be open and fun with people, and let the girls come to you. trust me, the whole hunting for a girl only works when your trying to hunt for food and girls arnt just pieces of meat. so you see why it doesnt always work.

[Ryu # 20]

You win some you lose a lot. What if you NEVER win and ALWAYS lose?

I already know what my wish for New Year is gonna be.

[Gore Whore]

u gotta be more confident man....  u gotta take care of your self too.  if u weigh a lot! then lose some, if your bony as hell then eat a lot then join a gym or somethin.   but main thing is confidence, sounds weird and stupid but its true.

[Ryu # 20]

Alright, but what use is that if she's got a boyfriend for about 4 years?

Ain't got nothing to do but wait and hope I get a chance.

[Nutty-Da-Kid]

waitin suks especially if ur in desperate need of a girl to hold u need to go after someone else who cares if u so called love her its pretty obvious that u will always be just friends wit her even if u do love her that dont mean u cant find someone else

[Ryu # 20]

I'm just tired of looking someone else or somewhere else.