Author Topic: Need a little help on a personal issue (Read 3270 times)

Gore Whore · « **Reply #75 on:** October 24, 2007, 01:44:27 PM »

Quote from: Ryu # 18 on October 24, 2007, 12:46:22 PM

I got a piece of news today (nothing bad, nothing good): I still couldn't tell her "I'll invite you to eat if I pass" because of privacy reasons (Not really clever to tell her with all her friends around - I want to ask her out not make her embarrassed.), but she's expecting my result as well as me. Plus when she sees me along with my friends I'm the only one she kisses. I guess that's a good sign, because it didn't happen just once bu it's been happening for a little while.

damn she kisses you, hey man im gonna be honest with you. you better do somethiing pretty quick cause eventually shes gonna stop after a while, cause shes gonna see that you cant take control. just hang out with her some where simple, she ll say yes if its somethiing simple and easy. but nothing big

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #76 on:** October 24, 2007, 02:25:08 PM »

Giving another person a kiss in the cheek as a way of saying hi is a normal custom in Argentina. But this chick has made it special with me in this case, I guess. Hasn't gone further than that. Just a little chit-chat once in a while. But I need to wait for the result in order to ask her.

juelz aka wolfi · « **Reply #77 on:** October 24, 2007, 02:42:04 PM »

so when is dat gona happen?

Esq. · « **Reply #78 on:** October 24, 2007, 02:57:29 PM »

.....wow.....

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #79 on:** October 24, 2007, 03:57:06 PM »

Somewhere this week - 'cause that's the deadline for the professors to correct the exams. And there's still the point: I need to isolate her, which is the central problem. Note: I'M NOT GONNA WIMP OUT. As I said I wouldn't want to make her embarrassed by asking her out with all those other chicks around. Reasonable, right?

BUT! Here's another thing (It's funny I believe) : Today I was going down the stairs with her and her friends when leaving, and like I said above we were talking about my exam. Now SOMEHOW - Ain't got nothing to do with it I swear, - one of her friends told me "Hope you pass. I heard you were gonna invite someone to eat, but who is she?

". As Julieta (my crush) and another chick were coming behind her, I told her "Can't tell you 'cause she's behind you.". Maybe she's gonna help me - I get along with all those chicks.

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #80 on:** October 25, 2007, 12:53:58 PM »

I got my report: I PASSED! So I'm moving out as soon as I can. I hope I just get the chance I need and that it turns out for best. I was going to do it today but she was absent again.

KPT25 · « **Reply #81 on:** October 25, 2007, 01:53:30 PM »

Congrats on you test and you advance in this love story....

No seriously:Good luck pal

Nutty-Da-Kid · « **Reply #82 on:** October 25, 2007, 07:57:28 PM »

it would be nice if u got her in the end man keep it up u have come far my friend u wimp out and u may never get a chance like this again

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #83 on:** October 25, 2007, 08:02:27 PM »

Don't worry about it: I'm not gonna wimp out, I promise.

I don't really see it as coming far, and I don't know whether she'll accept or not, but there's one thing I'm sure of: At least she's not gonna be a b****, and THAT'S SOMETHING ALREADY.

Right now I'm only waiting for an one-on-one.

Nutty-Da-Kid · « **Reply #84 on:** October 25, 2007, 08:22:29 PM »

well u kinda got over ur fear of being a weeny thats kinda comin far

juelz aka wolfi · « **Reply #85 on:** October 25, 2007, 08:28:03 PM »

let us know what happens after u told her and remember
jus act ur normal self and funny
gud luck

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #86 on:** October 31, 2007, 01:05:04 PM »

I got the final result:

I just asked her today going on the bus with her (I SAID I WOULDN'T WIMP OUT) but it has failed. She's been with her boyfriend for about 4 years.

There are two good points about this anyways:

1 - I FINALLY managed to get the balls to ask her.
2 - At least she wasn't a b****.

I saw it coming yet it hurts a little. Don't take it as an Emo thing but I broke down and started crying as soon as I got home.

So the battle is over for this soldier. Please don't tell me to move on 'cause I feel THIS is the one after many turndowns, and I really love her. Of course I'll keep silent, but there's no way I am able to move on.

Nutty-Da-Kid · « **Reply #87 on:** October 31, 2007, 01:11:12 PM »

Quote from: Ryu # 18 on October 31, 2007, 01:05:04 PM

I got some news:

I just asked her today going on the bus with her (I SAID I WOULDN'T WIMP OUT) but it has failed. She's been with her boyfriend for about 4 years.

There are two good points about this anyways:

1 - I FINALLY managed to get the balls to ask her.
2 - At least she wasn't a b****.

I saw it coming yet it hurts a little. Don't take it as an Emo thing but I broke down and started crying as soon as I got home.

So the battle is over for this soldier.

srry man im not tryin to be mean but im not going to front like i wasnt laughin in real life about u crying after u got home.

wows man im srry to hear that though i dont know how u managed to cry, the same exact thing that happened to u happened to me last year except for da cryin part i saw it as if she had a boyfriend no problem life goes on dont worry though man u r goin to get another chance and like they say love does hurt sometimes

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #88 on:** October 31, 2007, 01:13:32 PM »

Quote from: Nutpatch on October 31, 2007, 01:11:12 PM

u r goin to get another chance

I just hope it's with her.

Nutty-Da-Kid · « **Reply #89 on:** October 31, 2007, 01:15:28 PM »

Quote from: Ryu # 18 on October 31, 2007, 01:13:32 PM

Quote from: Nutpatch on October 31, 2007, 01:11:12 PM
u r goin to get another chance

I just hope it's with her.

sometimes i think of that kind of stuff like fate maybe god made u not get her and in da future u will be with a different girl that u will be happy with and if this does happen u will thank the lord that u didnt end up wit the other girl that u were going for

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #90 on:** October 31, 2007, 01:31:07 PM »

Quote from: Nutpatch on October 31, 2007, 01:15:28 PM

Quote from: Ryu # 18 on October 31, 2007, 01:13:32 PM
Quote from: Nutpatch on October 31, 2007, 01:11:12 PM
u r goin to get another chance

I just hope it's with her.

sometimes i think of that kind of stuff like fate maybe god made u not get her and in da future u will be with a different girl that u will be happy with and if this does happen u will thank the lord that u didnt end up wit the other girl that u were going for

Tell him I'm not gonna look any further.

juelz aka wolfi · « **Reply #91 on:** October 31, 2007, 01:38:32 PM »

sorry to hear that lil bro but hey she might get fed of him soon
all u have to do is still love her till she breaks up with him then tell her how u still liked her and then she would be shocked and happy then she wud go out wit ya
trust me anyway stay friends wit her gud friends aight
and wen the time comes u will be a shoulda 2 cry on (or anything else)
peace out ryu

KPT25 · « **Reply #92 on:** October 31, 2007, 05:53:32 PM »

Quote from: Ryu # 18 on October 31, 2007, 01:05:04 PM

I got the final result:

I just asked her today going on the bus with her (I SAID I WOULDN'T WIMP OUT) but it has failed. She's been with her boyfriend for about 4 years.

There are two good points about this anyways:

1 - I FINALLY managed to get the balls to ask her.
2 - At least she wasn't a b****.

I saw it coming yet it hurts a little. Don't take it as an Emo thing but I broke down and started crying as soon as I got home.

So the battle is over for this soldier. Please don't tell me to move on 'cause I feel THIS is the one after many turndowns, and I really love her. Of course I'll keep silent, but there's no way I am able to move on.

Only one word can express my feelings on reading this...

DAMN!

A! · « **Reply #93 on:** October 31, 2007, 06:00:36 PM »

your in collage and your a VL!???

Esq. · « **Reply #94 on:** October 31, 2007, 06:56:14 PM »

...So...in that entire time you never asked her if she's had a BOYFRIEND!!!?

Dude, don't be angry, I'm gonna be honest with you, do you TRULY love this chic, or do you REALLY like her? There's a difference, and I'm only asking because you not knowing that she's had a boyfriend for FOUR YEARS kinda hints that you might not know her well enough to actually be in love...(that's only my opinion though,

). I'm glad you finally asked, but really, it's not the end of the world...and I mean that in the most sincere way. If it happens, it happens, if not, then it wasn't meant to be...that doesn't mean give up, but just don't stress over it. If you love her, then all you really want is her happiness, and as long as she's happy, don't interfere with it. Keep the faith.

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #95 on:** October 31, 2007, 07:06:39 PM »

Quote from: Lord_of_Saiyans on October 31, 2007, 06:56:14 PM

...So...in that entire time you never asked her if she's had a BOYFRIEND!!!? Dude, don't be angry, I'm gonna be honest with you, do you TRULY love this chic, or do you REALLY like her? There's a difference, and I'm only asking because you not knowing that she's had a boyfriend for FOUR YEARS kinda hints that you might not know her well enough to actually be in love...(that's only my opinion though, ). I'm glad you finally asked, but really, it's not the end of the world...and I mean that in the most sincere way. If it happens, it happens, if not, then it wasn't meant to be...that doesn't mean give up, but just don't stress over it. If you love her, then all you really want is her happiness, and as long as she's happy, don't interfere with it. Keep the faith.

Ain't got no faith left. But I know what I have to do.

Ryu # 20 · « **Reply #96 on:** October 31, 2007, 07:07:25 PM »

Quote from: Tupac on October 31, 2007, 06:00:36 PM

your in collage and your a VL!???

What does VL mean?

A! · « **Reply #97 on:** October 31, 2007, 07:38:02 PM »

you ever kised a girl

Esq. · « **Reply #98 on:** October 31, 2007, 11:41:14 PM »

Quote from: Ryu # 18 on October 31, 2007, 07:06:39 PM

Quote from: Lord_of_Saiyans on October 31, 2007, 06:56:14 PM
...So...in that entire time you never asked her if she's had a BOYFRIEND!!!? Dude, don't be angry, I'm gonna be honest with you, do you TRULY love this chic, or do you REALLY like her? There's a difference, and I'm only asking because you not knowing that she's had a boyfriend for FOUR YEARS kinda hints that you might not know her well enough to actually be in love...(that's only my opinion though, ). I'm glad you finally asked, but really, it's not the end of the world...and I mean that in the most sincere way. If it happens, it happens, if not, then it wasn't meant to be...that doesn't mean give up, but just don't stress over it. If you love her, then all you really want is her happiness, and as long as she's happy, don't interfere with it. Keep the faith.

Ain't got no faith left. But I know what I have to do.

I understand...and that's big of you because it must hurt.

Nutty-Da-Kid · « **Reply #99 on:** November 01, 2007, 12:37:58 AM »

Quote from: Ryu # 18 on October 31, 2007, 07:06:39 PM

Quote from: Lord_of_Saiyans on October 31, 2007, 06:56:14 PM
...So...in that entire time you never asked her if she's had a BOYFRIEND!!!? Dude, don't be angry, I'm gonna be honest with you, do you TRULY love this chic, or do you REALLY like her? There's a difference, and I'm only asking because you not knowing that she's had a boyfriend for FOUR YEARS kinda hints that you might not know her well enough to actually be in love...(that's only my opinion though, ). I'm glad you finally asked, but really, it's not the end of the world...and I mean that in the most sincere way. If it happens, it happens, if not, then it wasn't meant to be...that doesn't mean give up, but just don't stress over it. If you love her, then all you really want is her happiness, and as long as she's happy, don't interfere with it. Keep the faith.

Ain't got no faith left. But I know what I have to do.

man im really not tryin to be mean but dude just cause u didnt get one girl dont mean u got to giv up i mean come on if u keep this attitude u r going to end up 40 years old single wit no kids. dont think like that man thats just step one all u got to do now if u want just a suggestion is talk to as many girls as u can i mean u should be bound to end up with at least one

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