girlfriend family situation(need some help on what I should do)

[Hattori hanzo]

ok well then still bring a shot gun.. f**k a knife i bet they slow the f**k down then

[dennis872005]

Her godmother needs to kick these people out it's not even funny.

thats what Im saying.Also here's another funny part.the same guy who's her older sister babyfather(the 20 year old sis) used to mess with the younger sis(the 18 yearold).he basically went from the younger sister to the older one and got her pregnant over there,right while the godmother was home

I'm not trying to be rude or anything but this crap is funny. First you agree with blood ninja that it ain't funny and in the next sentence you say,"Also here's another funny part."

Anyways if it was me I would dump her. She has too many problems and that ex sound like an butt. And the godmother is blind as hell.

[♦ßlôödÑinjå♦]

i tried if you go Bring a knife.

[BLue BoMBeR]

its easy to say whats the truth inside your heart

but when your in front of your lover you cant even say a thing...

am i right?

[Ryu # 20]

I don't think I would dump her (and I imagine you wouldn't even dream of it). You could try to have a serious talk, warn her about those goons and tell her what you think. Maybe she won't like what you say but she's gotta deal with the facts.

But 15-20 people? You'll be standing in front of an army. Don't think a knife could save you. But if you do go... Try to be cool and hope nothing happens. Get ready for hell - just in case.

One question: Does her god mother not like you as well?

[BLue BoMBeR]

truth will set you free....

[Gore Whore]

well her ex, does the ex still like your gf.  cause there are times when they really dont care anymore bout eachother in that way.  you should go, cause you have to win there family over if youve been with her for that long.  and yes you should come with protection, always come prepared for everything

[reezy718]

nah when I said 15-20 people I meant thats all the people that live in that same house.I wasnt talking about her ex crew.She said when she been there recently he came there a few times but he aint speak to her.she said he brings his girl with him sometimes.however when me and her first got together,in the begginig of our relationship she said he tried to get with her.Also one of godmother friend who is a cokehead about in his late 30's tried to get with her about 2 months ago when she went to visit.Its like her ex aint the only one that Im worried bout thats try to get with her.
What makes it more crazy all these people be in the same house,thats why I dont feel comfortable there.When i try to talk her out of it she says thats her only fam and if she lose them she aint gon have nobody because her real fam is all f**ked up(another long story behind that).Her godmother doesnt like me and she doesnt want my girl to stay with me.One time she actually tried to keep my girl over there with them and also took her cell phone away so she couldnt call me


btw dennis I never said it wasnt funny.Blood ninja said that bout her kicking the people out.To me it actually is kind of funny cuz its a outrageous situation but at the same time its messed up too.

[Ryu # 20]

There might be a chance nothing happens and everything just goes cool.

[Esq.]

Man, word is bond. You knew this was gonna come up fam, (although I'm sure you shrugged  at the thought!  ), you REALLY should've looked into some hotels or something. If you really went through with that other arrangement where she went with your family, she's got you on a leash for this one...that's one JACKED up family doh!  Honestly, the two of you need to sit down, talk and try to figure out how this is going to work. If she loves you man, she's not going to want to put you in harms way, so she seriously needs to be about your safety first. You're two adults, you guys can do this. After that's secure, sleeping arrangements need to be made POST-HASTE! You guys should know EVERYTHING that's going down before you even step through that smoldering door. I can tell you don't really give a damn that her family doesn't like you, and I think that's a good thing, if you love her and want to be with her that's YOUR business, but I can see where that comes into play when you're STAYING with the damn people! I don't know...the situation is really iffy, but if your word means anything, you have to do it. Personally, I would find another place to stay while you guys are there, she should understand the sensitivity of the matter. Like I said, if she loves you, she won't want to put you in harm's way.  Good luck with that.... Oh, and if I were you, somebody would've been getting their @$$ kicked for disrespecting me and coming at my girl  ...do what you have to do. That is, ONLY if it's worth it...but nobody knows that but you.

[reezy718]

Man, word is bond. You knew this was gonna come up fam, (although I'm sure you shrugged  at the thought!  ), you REALLY should've looked into some hotels or something. If you really went through with that other arrangement where she went with your family, she's got you on a leash for this one...that's one JACKED up family doh!  Honestly, the two of you need to sit down, talk and try to figure out how this is going to work. If she loves you man, she's not going to want to put you in harms way, so she seriously needs to be about your safety first. You're two adults, you guys can do this. After that's secure, sleeping arrangements need to be made POST-HASTE! You guys should know EVERYTHING that's going down before you even step through that smoldering door. I can tell you don't really give a damn that her family doesn't like you, and I think that's a good thing, if you love her and want to be with her that's YOUR business, but I can see where that comes into play when you're STAYING with the damn people! I don't know...the situation is really iffy, but if your word means anything, you have to do it. Personally, I would find another place to stay while you guys are there, she should understand the sensitivity of the matter. Like I said, if she loves you, she won't want to put you in harm's way.  Good luck with that.... Oh, and if I were you, somebody would've been getting their @$$ kicked for disrespecting me and coming at my girl  ...do what you have to do. That is, ONLY if it's worth it...but nobody knows that but you.

Did you read my 1st post of this thread?I guess I might've confused some people.we dont live with her fam.She live with me in nyc.The problem is that her fam is in newark new jersey.When those dudes tried to talk 2 her in nj I wasnt there.I never went with her to nj cuz of the whole situation i mentioned on my first post of this thread.Dont get me wrong though,I feel everything that you saying.Thats a similar thing that I told her godmother.I told her to let my girl make her own decisions and stop trying to influence.Its not only the godmother,its the fam in general that dont like me.Only one of her godsisters like me.
back to the topic though,Im not sure if im going over there anytime soon but I dont feel comfortable with her there.I dont know who gonna be Its like so many different people stay and leave there,I dont know who gonna be there.For all I know some new guy could be  staying over son.4real son,its that crazy.I talked to her about it before and she makes it seem as if Im trying to take her away from her family.She also said that if she loses them,she wont have anybody cuz her Real fam is all messed up.

[Ryu # 20]

Lord of Saiyans does talk sense. He's given the best piece of advice so far. However, keep in mind what I said above: There might be a chance nothing happens and everything just goes cool.

[Nutty-Da-Kid]

f**k a knife get a Semi automatic i mean come on her ex and his boys prolly got guns and if u stabb him than u will have to deal wit a lot of other ppl u should tell her how u feel about this or just let her have a good time by herself i would never go to a place where so many ppl didn't like me.

[MuηkyMØÜf]

LEAVE

Thats too much to deal with. Let them do what they do. Unless you feel that much for shorty than suck it up and try to get in fam's good graces. Otherwise dipp on her mann. You can go find you another lil' dime and be straight.
 

[juelz aka wolfi]

meet her family somewhere sayf like in your hood only invite the peeps that do like you
make sure your boys are around just in case tekl ur girl the whole situation and thats its better if you all me meet up somewhere ok ish to avoid any trouble

[reezy718]

meet her family somewhere sayf like in your hood only invite the peeps that do like you
make sure your boys are around just in case tekl ur girl the whole situation and thats its better if you all me meet up somewhere ok ish to avoid any trouble

That would be a good idea but Im not if it will work out either.out of the 15-20 people that live there,only about 2 or 3 of them work.The godmother isnt one of them.she usually stays in the house.They usually never really have a lot of money over there.One time me and my girl had broken up for 2 weeks and she was staying over there.She only ate about 4 or 5 days out of that whole 2 weeks.When I say she ate,she only ate 1 meal a day.She told me that when it comes to food its like whoever gets to it first will eat.So if you not in the house when somebody buys it then you wont eat that day.They do make sure that the babies eat though.
back to the subject though,Im really try to get my girl to tell them to come up here but I dont know.none of them have cars and I dont know if they gonna be willing to come up here.They not gonna be willing to get on the bus.The only person that might be willing to come is one of her godsisters cuz me and her is cool