Post by: Savage Henry on January 26, 2009, 09:14:50 PM
"That haircut makes you look like a faggot. Wait, you are a faggot."
"That play you were in was so gay. And your character was the gayest."
I know that i'm going to tell him this...
"You know, Chris, you talk a lot of crap...."
but i dont know what else to say. Please help me think of some clever insults or something. Thanks.
Post by: R.I.C.O - Teros on January 26, 2009, 09:20:12 PM
Post by: Spidermew on January 26, 2009, 09:33:38 PM
Say nothing. Just laugh with him. That's what I would do anyway. Just get on his nerves right back.
Agreed, laugh, crack up, act like it dosnt bother you at all. He'll try something else, but just act like is the funnyest thing in the world, he'll give up the effort.
Post by: shootYr. on January 26, 2009, 09:35:39 PM
Jk I Would Just lol @ Him.
There Is Really No Really To Stoop Down To His Level And Use Childish Insults And Go Back And Forth Like 25 Chickens In A Chicken Coop.
Post by: UltraRoboninja on January 26, 2009, 09:52:09 PM
Post by: Superjoker on January 26, 2009, 09:54:32 PM
i suggest u crack him a good hook on the mouth n he'll leave u alone, even if he is bigger than ya n shakes u up a bit, he'll kno that dog bites next time.
Post by: juelz aka wolfi on January 26, 2009, 09:58:32 PM
but on the other hand i cud PM you wiv sum cusses?
Post by: Spidermew on January 26, 2009, 09:58:59 PM
if u laugh wit him or ignore him, it wont make him go away till months down the track,
i suggest u crack him a good hook on the mouth n he'll leave u alone, even if he is bigger than ya n shakes u up a bit, he'll kno that dog bites next time.
*Iceman ThumbsDown!* Horable Idea. Violence will get him thrown off of the bus, and possably out of school.
Whenever someone would try to insult me by calling me gay, I'l just laugh and say "Bet you wish I was." ;)
This is best. Yes throw that "Bet you wish I was." Out there, all the other kids will start to laugh at him.
Post by: mastamasta on January 26, 2009, 11:16:21 PM
He is always calling me gay and stupid and stuff. Here are some examples of what he says.
"That haircut makes you look like a faggot. Wait, you are a faggot."
"That play you were in was so gay. And your character was the gayest."
I know that i'm going to tell him this...
"You know, Chris, you talk a lot of sh*t...."
but i dont know what else to say. Please help me think of some clever insults or something. Thanks.
for real, i would punch him in his mouth. depending on how long he has been talking like this to you, there is only so much you should take. ignoring it doesnt work, you cant ignore something thats in front of you. saying something as childish as "your gar" to someone who acts like that doesn't work, you probably just invoke him to change his catch phrase. beat his butt man. he deserves it, and you have a good reason for doing it. :)
Post by: shitakimushrooms1990 on January 27, 2009, 02:12:40 AM
A: Smash him but if you don't want to get kicked out, laugh along.
B: If that fails, talk more crap about him? (make it worst then what he's doing)
C: IF all else fails, then smash him?
Though my opinion would be C but that's living on the rez for ya. Fight now don't bother with questions.
Post by: The Notic on January 27, 2009, 02:21:26 AM
Pop him 1 time in the mouth.
Not on the buss though, you will get kicked off.
Post by: GaryOldman on January 27, 2009, 03:03:45 AM
and then see what he does.
Post by: bdcirck on January 27, 2009, 03:42:48 AM
Post by: greatmuta2 on January 27, 2009, 03:46:22 AM
I would say nothing and call the cops. Just say he is stalking you, sexual herasing you(don't now if i wrote it right) and that he makes threats with anal sex.lol good one you should do this
Post by: Lord_Waffles on January 27, 2009, 04:02:41 AM
I would say nothing and call the cops. Just say he is stalking you, sexual herasing you(don't now if i wrote it right) and that he makes threats with anal sex.I'd go with this one if you could. Best choice would be the "You wish I was gay" choice from earlier. If it were me, I'd do something similar to the "You wish I was gay" situation. I'd turn to my friend, on the bus, and ask them if they know why this guy was flirting with me all the time. If the guy says he's not then ask him why he's always talking to you like he loves you.
Post by: ATiC3 on January 27, 2009, 04:15:00 AM
I actually have done what I mentioned above, and it worked out just fine most of the time.. never heard from the kid again (because my dean threatened to suspend him, because he wasn't just callin me names, ya know..). So, try that... see what works... if necessary, find another secure way to get to school... maybe one of your parents or guardians can drive you there in the morning... :-??
Post by: Captain Cold on January 27, 2009, 09:14:24 AM
Agreed, laugh, crack up, act like it dosnt bother you at all. He'll try something else, but just act like is the funnyest thing in the world, he'll give up the effort.
yeah that works best just Laugh Hysterical and just stop and walk away...I love doing that....and another one that works for me is everthing he says just say one word. I use "butt" just say that one word to everything he says, he might think its stupid at first but if you say it enough to everything he says even conversation he is having with other people it will work lol.....some kid at work thought he was cool and I did that until he started to cry I laughed LOL
Post by: AceWonder20 on January 27, 2009, 10:22:28 AM
Tell him to please stop. And if that doesn't work.Yeah, u don't let no one insult ur manhood. But use this only as a last resort. Like if the "You wish I was' joke yields no results.
Pop him 1 time in the mouth.
Not on the buss though, you will get kicked off.
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 27, 2009, 11:39:09 AM
for real, i would punch him in his mouth. depending on how long he has been talking like this to you, there is only so much you should take. ignoring it doesnt work, you cant ignore something thats in front of you. saying something as childish as "your gar" to someone who acts like that doesn't work, you probably just invoke him to change his catch phrase. beat his @$$ man. he deserves it, and you have a good reason for doing it. :)
Yea here are a couple of ideas
1. Tell him to meet u somewhere like the park or something
2. Get off at his stop And beat da poop outta him
3. Or while he's cracking a joke or laughing man take allllll your power and Nock the sh*t outta his jaw chances are hes probably laughing and when ur mouth is open And u get punched in it real hard it makes it easier to break the jaw...
I mean look man i dont show when i get mad but i get mad and when they think im not going to do anything i would just snake his @ss (Hit him right in da eyes) dats just da type of person i am lol i dont tell u to square up or anything i just hit u when ur not expecting it and if u fall i got u from there :D my cousin and dad is da exact same way i think it runs in the family... My brother epa Villian will tell u to square up cuz he has a lot of speed, he is also a good fighter and he can diss ppl reall good too, My older brother will tell u to square up too.
Dont call the cops lol that wont work at all... Then he will start makin fun of u even more for being a snitch.... And most likely hes going to want to beat you up...
Post by: eg6gsr on January 27, 2009, 11:48:19 AM
AQUATEENS
but forreal dont fight him not yet there is not point to getting in trouble over something so pointless
Post by: Captain Cold on January 27, 2009, 11:49:52 AM
Post by: mastamasta on January 27, 2009, 12:10:53 PM
Well, if it was me, I'd get in his face and if he continued, smash him. (That's just me though, I'm a bit of a short temp bastard xD). But if your aiming not to get kicked out, then I'd have to go with what everyone else is saying, just laugh along with him. So here are some options. :P
A: Smash him but if you don't want to get kicked out, laugh along.
B: If that fails, talk more sh*t about him? (make it worst then what he's doing)
C: IF all else fails, then smash him?
Though my opinion would be C but that's living on the rez for ya. Fight now don't bother with questions.
indeed.
If you can... then move to another seat on the bus... OR wait for him to get on the bus... THEN move to another seat... see if he's still calling you names then... If so, do the right thing and report him at your school... tell them "Hey, this kid won't stop talking trash to me... He's calling me gay and all sorts of things... Can you please tell him to stop or convince him to do so? Thanks." If you know his name, then give them his name.. if not, describe the face... they'll probably look him up for ya... It all depends on your school.. how nice they are...
I actually have done what I mentioned above, and it worked out just fine most of the time.. never heard from the kid again (because my dean threatened to suspend him, because he wasn't just callin me names, ya know..). So, try that... see what works... if necessary, find another secure way to get to school... maybe one of your parents or guardians can drive you there in the morning... :-??
though this may be the civil thing to do, but you cant ignore someone disrespecting you, embarrassing you, calling you names and just mentally hurting you. ignoring him is making him do it more. "O this kid wont say nothing back to me, so ill keep doing it" most people who act like that, with the name calling and the bullying, are usually just big bitches. he is making up for something he lacks, so picking on the kid that wont do nothing makes him feel big. he does it to you, cause you dont DO anything back. talking to someone like that, will only further continue this cycle you have. telling on him will just make him wanna pick on you more, he'll just have another reason to mess with you.
Yea here are a couple of ideas
1. Tell him to meet u somewhere like the park or something
2. Get off at his stop And beat da poop outta him
3. Or while he's cracking a joke or laughing man take allllll your power and Nock the sh*t outta his jaw chances are hes probably laughing and when ur mouth is open And u get punched in it real hard it makes it easier to break the jaw...
I mean look man i dont show when i get mad but i get mad and when they think im not going to do anything i would just snake his @ss (Hit him right in da eyes) dats just da type of person i am lol i dont tell u to square up or anything i just hit u when ur not expecting it and if u fall i got u from there :D my cousin and dad is da exact same way i think it runs in the family... My brother epa Villian will tell u to square up cuz he has a lot of speed, he is also a good fighter and he can diss ppl reall good too, My older brother will tell u to square up too.
Dont call the cops lol that wont work at all... Then he will start makin fun of u even more for being a snitch.... And most likely hes going to want to beat you up...
^agreeed
im from nyc....you dont run from somebody at the school i went to. they'll just run after you.
violence isnt the best way to solve things. but some people dont know any other way...standing up for yourself is different from just starting fights for no reason, or acting like this puke on your bus. some people need to be smacked back into reality...show some back bone, stand up to him. name calling is for childern, dont call people names. slap the crap out of him. or just punch him in his throat as hard as you can lol he wont call you anymore names, he wont have the breathe too.
:)
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 27, 2009, 12:24:21 PM
indeed.
though this may be the civil thing to do, but you cant ignore someone disrespecting you, embarrassing you, calling you names and just mentally hurting you. ignoring him is making him do it more. "O this kid wont say nothing back to me, so ill keep doing it" most people who act like that, with the name calling and the bullying, are usually just big bitches. he is making up for something he lacks, so picking on the kid that wont do nothing makes him feel big. he does it to you, cause you dont DO anything back. talking to someone like that, will only further continue this cycle you have. telling on him will just make him wanna pick on you more, he'll just have another reason to mess with you.
^agreeed
im from nyc....you dont run from somebody at the school i went to. they'll just run after you.
violence isnt the best way to solve things. but some people dont know any other way...standing up for yourself is different from just starting fights for no reason, or acting like this puke on your bus. some people need to be smacked back into reality...show some back bone, stand up to him. name calling is for childern, dont call people names. slap the sh*t out of him. or just punch him in his throat as hard as you can lol he wont call you anymore names, he wont have the breathe too.
:)
oooo thats a good one cuz u know how i told u i dont tell u when im going to hit u... i usually would try to go for da knockout hit first i think i will try the throat next time someone really pisses me off its what my cousin did lol... But yea some people need to get there asses beat its the only way to get respect and when they respect he wont run his mouf anymore :-@ I mean after that no matter how many times he calls u gay u still beat his @ss at da end of the day... then all u gotta say is do u want me to beat yo @ss again... or not even that just hit him while hes talking cuz i bet hes trying to show off..
Post by: Spidermew on January 27, 2009, 12:36:11 PM
Violence is just the dumb way out of it. Its not like he's getting beat up on the bus.
This isnt fudal japan where the slightest dishonor was means for a dule. Use your brains instead of your fists.
Post by: mastamasta on January 27, 2009, 12:45:45 PM
oooo thats a good one cuz u know how i told u i dont tell u when im going to hit u... i usually would try to go for da knockout hit first i think i will try the throat next time someone really pisses me off its what my cousin did lol... But yea some people need to get there asses beat its the only way to get respect and when they respect he wont run his mouf anymore :-@ I mean after that no matter how many times he calls u gay u still beat his @ss at da end of the day... then all u gotta say is do u want me to beat yo @ss again... or not even that just hit him while hes talking cuz i bet hes trying to show off..
lol yeah it always funny to see somebody gasp for air after you slam your fist into there neck. just dont crush his windpipe lol the throats the most vunerable place on the human body, that and your temples. the biggest strongest man could'nt withstand a chop to the throat.. he wouldnt be able to scream for help if he had a megaphone.
o.O# Violence will only bring more violence! Attacking him will only make the guy beat on him every day, it will get him in trouble with school, and with his family.
Violence is just the dumb way out of it. Its not like he's getting beat up on the bus.
This isnt fudal japan where the slightest dishonor was means for a dule. Use your brains instead of your fists.
smh. your telling me letting someone pick on you is the right thing to do....thats just as bad as fighting. fighting is only nessacary if its nessacary. ive been studing a technique called white eye brow, for 11 years, i know why you shouldnt start fights, and why you shouldnt WANT to engage in one. but letting some one tarnish you like that is perposterous. when you can honestly say you've tried to keep it from happening, you avoided it from happening and it still does, there is only one way to go. thats either to your deans office, or to my dojo, ill teach you how to break his neck with your index finger. lol but in all serious-ness...tell him.. WHY DO YOU GOT A PROBLEM, ive never said anything or done anything to you....or challange him to fight and punch him in the neck.
Post by: Spidermew on January 27, 2009, 12:59:23 PM
smh. your telling me letting someone pick on you is the right thing to do....thats just as bad as fighting.
Did I say that? No I didnt. Im saying that fighting should only be taken as a last resort, and shouldnt even come to it in this situation. Informing teachers of the problem is one thing, or using your wits to get back at the guy.
Is the guy being phyicaly abusive? Is he threatning your well being? Is he using racal slurs on your best friends and threating their well being? No? Then there is no point in violence. Ive only had to fight someone once, and I didnt do it untill after he started using the nword to describe my best friend of the time, and saying he was going to hurt her.
And actualy, not letting it bother you, and just walking away, means your a better person then the guy trying to get a rise out of you. He wants you to fight him, he wants you to bring on the violence, dont give him what he wants.
Post by: mastamasta on January 27, 2009, 01:14:17 PM
Did I say that? No I didnt. Im saying that fighting should only be taken as a last resort, and shouldnt even come to it in this situation. Informing teachers of the problem is one thing, or using your wits to get back at the guy.
Is the guy being phyicaly abusive? Is he threatning your well being? Is he using racal slurs on your best friends and threating their well being? No? Then there is no point in violence. Ive only had to fight someone once, and I didnt do it untill after he started using the nword to describe my best friend of the time, and saying he was going to hurt her.
And actualy, not letting it bother you, and just walking away, means your a better person then the guy trying to get a rise out of you. He wants you to fight him, he wants you to bring on the violence, dont give him what he wants.
pascifist. lol you right in a sense, and as i stated
fighting is only nessacary if its nessacary. i know why you shouldnt start fights, and why you shouldnt WANT to engage in one.
fighting on.ly bring out more fighting. everyone is different, were all from different places with different values and with different circumstances that surround our every day life. telling on him, will infuriate him to wanna then start phsyically abusing the kid. kids like that dont know any other way, i can see someone who doesnt wanna fight would only know how to not start a fight. but someone like that needs a lesson...telling on him is an option. but be perpared for when he comes to attack you for telling on him... everyone and everyplace is different...conversing on a subject is just delibrating, we all have different scenerios of life and handling our problems..so if he laying one finger on you, break him off. but if the kid can find a better alternative to this problem, then by all means, fighting is the last thing you should do....but at times it is the most effective, to a thick headed bully. who despite you asking him to stop, you telling him to stop, or someone else telling him to stop, he wont, until you , yourself take action. verbally or physically
Post by: That Mugen Guy on January 27, 2009, 01:14:51 PM
1. I don't think u should laugh when someone is calling u gay u'll look worse
2. If u are looking for insults go for his Mom(it still surprisingly works) or get some dirt on him and talk about that
3. Get a group of friends and catch him off guard with insults
4. make fun of the way he's always talking about u, it will annoy him
and if ur black call him a B**** @$$ N!**@
Post by: Gaijin on January 27, 2009, 01:18:50 PM
Post by: KPT25 on January 27, 2009, 01:35:52 PM
Post by: b.easy on January 27, 2009, 02:24:08 PM
1. I don't think u should laugh when someone is calling u gay u'll look worsewow...um...don't do any of these. :(|)
2. If u are looking for insults go for his Mom(it still surprisingly works) or get some dirt on him and talk about that
3. Get a group of friends and catch him off guard with insults
4. make fun of the way he's always talking about u, it will annoy him
and if ur black call him a B**** @$$ N!**@
o.O# Violence will only bring more violence! Attacking him will only make the guy beat on him every day, it will get him in trouble with school, and with his family.I disagree. If the guy really bothers you that much, hit him in the eye/jaw/chin. It's really the only way to make sure he shuts up (providing you get a good shot in).
Violence is just the dumb way out of it. Its not like he's getting beat up on the bus.
This isnt fudal japan where the slightest dishonor was means for a dule. Use your brains instead of your fists.
As far as getting in trouble, just remember that 4 years of dealing with the guy's crap and a month or two of punishment are two different things.
I had a problem like this when I was about 12 years old. I busted the kid over the head with my math book and got sent to the office and eventually sent home. When i got home, my mom was glad I stood up for myself and didn't care that I had just assaulted somebody.
Post by: mastamasta on January 27, 2009, 02:29:43 PM
wow...um...don't do any of these. :(|)
I disagree. If the guy really bothers you that much, hit him in the eye/jaw/chin. It's really the only way to make sure he shuts up (providing you get a good shot in).
As far as getting in trouble, just remember that 4 years of dealing with the guy's crap and a month or two of punishment are two different things.
I had a problem like this when I was about 12 years old. I busted the kid over the head with my math book and got sent to the office and eventually sent home. When i got home, my mom was glad I stood up for myself and didn't care that I had just assaulted somebody.
exactly >:D
Post by: x_mad80 on January 27, 2009, 02:41:55 PM
Post by: That Mugen Guy on January 27, 2009, 02:44:39 PM
wow...um...don't do any of these. :(|)
I disagree. If the guy really bothers you that much, hit him in the eye/jaw/chin. It's really the only way to make sure he shuts up (providing you get a good shot in).
As far as getting in trouble, just remember that 4 years of dealing with the guy's crap and a month or two of punishment are two different things.
I had a problem like this when I was about 12 years old. I busted the kid over the head with my math book and got sent to the office and eventually sent home. When i got home, my mom was glad I stood up for myself and didn't care that I had just assaulted somebody.
Who said hitting him was a good plan either. Its not U were talking bout, we don't even know who the dude is, or if Silly Puddy could even take the guy or not. He could walk up to the guy try and swing and might end up getting beat down. If he knows he can take him he could try to hit him but if he knows he can't try insulting him to a point he'll might just stop. And don't diss my ideas L-)
Post by: Lasher on January 27, 2009, 04:54:42 PM
(1) Dont show that your affected or when he laughs make fun of his laugh and say is that how people laugh when they.....(you can fill in the blanks here)
(2) Like someone said....attack his mom somehow (not literally...with words)
For example...if he calls you gay...say something like thats not what your mom said last night...lol
(3) Last resort...get off the same stop as him and pop him in the face when nobody is around. That way you can deny that you hit him. Schools need witnesses...they cant just take anybody's word.
Also, most likely if you hit him hard enough, he will cry
Call me childish but if you eventually show him that you will no longer take his bull****, he'll leave you alone.
Post by: Superjoker on January 27, 2009, 07:01:36 PM
i agree wit lasher
spider mew, r u a Buddhist? (jokes) , u dont believe in violence? why u play fightin games then?
u must have been a bully's dream if u were ever picked on.
tru punchin this little prick would create more violence, but silly putty will show him
he aint scared n he doesnt take crap from no one.
hence the bully free school years 2 come.
in some cases, one is either THE HUNTED or becomes THE HUNTER
8)
Post by: mastamasta on January 27, 2009, 07:12:31 PM
i agree wit lasher
spider mew, r u a Buddhist? (jokes) , u dont believe in violence? why u play fightin games then?
u must have been a bully's dream if u were ever picked on.
tru punchin this little prick would create more violence, but silly putty will show him
he aint scared n he doesnt take crap from no one.
hence the bully free school years 2 come.
in some cases, one is either THE HUNTED or becomes THE HUNTER
8)
LMAO... :D :D :D :D :D :D
Post by: Spidermew on January 27, 2009, 07:21:53 PM
i agree wit lasherIm a Christan. I only fight as a very last resort. Yeah i was picked on allot when i was in public school, but i always found differnt ways arround it. Like forming a group of friends who had all been picked on and we always stuck arround eacother and people didnt want to mess with the whole group anymore. Or In middleschool when I had the lead part in a play, I got allot of people apologizing for hitting me durring Gym class or picking on me because I could do something they were afraid to, and they ended up respecting me.
spider mew, r u a Buddhist? (jokes) , u dont believe in violence? why u play fightin games then?
u must have been a bully's dream if u were ever picked on.
tru punchin this little prick would create more violence, but silly putty will show him
he aint scared n he doesnt take crap from no one.
hence the bully free school years 2 come.
in some cases, one is either THE HUNTED or becomes THE HUNTER
8)
The only fight I ever got in, there was no other way. It was a school bully who lead a psudo-gang. It was so bad my teacher and the principle of the school gave me the ok to fight him. I wouldnt actualy do it untill I had to protect my black female friend from this bully who was very raceist in the way he described harming her. So after school that day, when the kids gatherd round, and his lackies were starting to circle me and he was about to start talking crap before the fight, I grapled him, knocked his feet up and fell ontop of him to the ground and wailed on him till he passed out.
So its not that I wont fight, I dont like to. Video games are differnt, and mugen is differnt then most fighting games lol.
Games are just a stress releaver.
Post by: Kojunho on January 27, 2009, 07:44:19 PM
Then you be like "Listen here bee-otch-butt, soft-butt, p****-butt, fake butt, ho-butt (pretty much a bunch of insulting words with the word -butt at the end; gives it more oomph then end it all with a 'punk bee-otch'), I see you talking sooooo much crap, and I'm about 99.999999% sure that you can't back up an iota of it, so please, step the f**k off or come get your butt-whooping like you well so deserve. Your choice."
At least if I was really pissed then that's what I would say.
If I wasn't the I'd just walk through him like a ghost.
Post by: Rygelseid on January 27, 2009, 08:51:24 PM
i would say fight him
you know stand up for yourself and be a man yo
but you're going for insults
so im sure someone has already said something clever
oh yeah how come he knows so much stuff about faggots
is he a faggot?
Post by: Acey on January 27, 2009, 09:01:48 PM
Im a Christan. I only fight as a very last resort. Yeah i was picked on allot when i was in public school, but i always found differnt ways arround it. Like forming a group of friends who had all been picked on and we always stuck arround eacother and people didnt want to mess with the whole group anymore. Or In middleschool when I had the lead part in a play, I got allot of people apologizing for hitting me durring Gym class or picking on me because I could do something they were afraid to, and they ended up respecting me.
The only fight I ever got in, there was no other way. It was a school bully who lead a psudo-gang. It was so bad my teacher and the principle of the school gave me the ok to fight him. I wouldnt actualy do it untill I had to protect my black female friend from this bully who was very raceist in the way he described harming her. So after school that day, when the kids gatherd round, and his lackies were starting to circle me and he was about to start talking crap before the fight, I grapled him, knocked his feet up and fell ontop of him to the ground and wailed on him till he passed out.
So its not that I wont fight, I dont like to. Video games are differnt, and mugen is differnt then most fighting games lol.
Games are just a stress releaver.
Like Spidermew, I was picked on alot up through Jr. High and sometimes it seems like there's just nothing you can do about it, the "adults" can't help and your peers often will only do what serves them best when it comes down to it. You could hit the guy and maybe he'll back off or maybe he'll just gang up on your later. No matter how easy it sounds, I think you should avoid fighting. You can have a greater strength than giving in to the urge to hurt people. Right now you are developing who you will be for the rest of your life, if you want to insult people or get into fights then that would have to be a decision you have to make. On the other hand you can chose to learn lessons from these interactions, perhaps how NOT to treat others.
So to answer you question, completely ignore the idiot, he's only doing it because his home life sucks and he's looking for attention from his peers.
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 27, 2009, 09:07:46 PM
wow...um...don't do any of these. :(|)
I disagree. If the guy really bothers you that much, hit him in the eye/jaw/chin. It's really the only way to make sure he shuts up (providing you get a good shot in).
As far as getting in trouble, just remember that 4 years of dealing with the guy's crap and a month or two of punishment are two different things.
I had a problem like this when I was about 12 years old. I busted the kid over the head with my math book and got sent to the office and eventually sent home. When i got home, my mom was glad I stood up for myself and didn't care that I had just assaulted somebody.
LOL! Yo for real man... Thats why people Shoot up schools, dismember bodys and go on killing rampages... Because they are picked on man sometimes u gotta fight.. The virgina tech guy didnt fight and u see what happened.... Its ok to fight even if they guys is bigger then you i mean if u hit him hard enough he might feel it but still stand, even if he beats yo @ss chances are hes going to respect u for standing up for yourself and im willng to bet he wont be so quick to run off at da mouf anymore... I know because i know someone one who did it and my cousin did too... He use to get picked on till he couldnt take it he picked up a chair and threw it over all the classmates, he has a temper and u best beleive ppl respect him now...
Post by: Lasher on January 27, 2009, 09:10:34 PM
Post by: Savage Henry on January 27, 2009, 10:10:25 PM
Post by: That Mugen Guy on January 27, 2009, 10:26:05 PM
Wow. I didnt think this would be a hot topic. Well, anyway. Thanks guys, I really appreciate you guys trying to help me. Im sure you guys have all dealt with assholes like this guy. Next time he tries to f**k me (be an @$$) Ill try doing that "You wish I was gay" thing. But, I was looking for some insults, Ya know. So If you guys got some, post em'. Peace.
A quick n fast insult is always the Mom it gets people really riled up
Post by: R.I.C.O - Teros on January 28, 2009, 09:19:37 AM
Post by: Sub-Zero on January 28, 2009, 09:39:12 AM
or just fight him :|
Post by: mastamasta on January 28, 2009, 09:42:55 AM
Like Spidermew, I was picked on alot up through Jr. High and sometimes it seems like there's just nothing you can do about it, the "adults" can't help and your peers often will only do what serves them best when it comes down to it. You could hit the guy and maybe he'll back off or maybe he'll just gang up on your later. No matter how easy it sounds, I think you should avoid fighting. You can have a greater strength than giving in to the urge to hurt people. Right now you are developing who you will be for the rest of your life, if you want to insult people or get into fights then that would have to be a decision you have to make. On the other hand you can chose to learn lessons from these interactions, perhaps how NOT to treat others.
So to answer you question, completely ignore the idiot, he's only doing it because his home life sucks and he's looking for attention from his peers.
that is logical. if thats the direction your going for.
Wow. I didnt think this would be a hot topic. Well, anyway. Thanks guys, I really appreciate you guys trying to help me. Im sure you guys have all dealt with assholes like this guy. Next time he tries to f**k me (be an @$$) Ill try doing that "You wish I was gay" thing. But, I was looking for some insults, Ya know. So If you guys got some, post em'. Peace.
look ima put it like this man, calling him names, will make him change his catch phrase, and seeing the way he acts, it will probaby make him wanna hurt you..
theres two things you can do
number one : ignore him and let him continue picking on you
number two: show some back bone and stand up to him....this doesnt mean you have to break his neck or something but..people like that only do it because they lack in real characteristics. like acey said he probably has a messed up home life or he is just trying to impress his friends for something he lacks. when i mean stand up to him, you dont have to just punch him.. come at him and say "im tierd of this, do you wanna fight? lets go" and tell him to make the first move, i can almost bet he wouldn't do anything, and if he does, defend yourself man. your fourteen years old. this isnt going to be the last time you face someone like this. you need to learn to stand up for yourself now, before people are walking all over you for the rest of your life. im white and native american...ive .lived in jamaica queens new york my whole life..dudes tried to come at me my freshmen year cause i didnt talk to anyone i kept to myself...i stood up formyself...ive gotten into so many bulls*** confrontations, its ridiculous...my schoo.l had metal detectors.my school had a STABBING every single day. people bringing guns to school, alota gang bulls*** etc.... when your in that type of surrounding. you HAVE to act accordingly...i know what a gun looks like pressed against your face, because somebody wants to steal your shoes from you. you gotta stand up man, even if you get your @$$ beat, stand up , dont give him an inch , but take everything from them dude im telling you. youll grow some confiendence, believe me..dont be one of these people on here talking about they got beat up all the life and they didnt do anything about it. challange him and make him make the first move. then punch him in his throat. your fourteen, your not going to jail, your not getting expelled from school. your standing up for yourself...dont let anybody disrespect you dude, nobody. id slap my own father for talking bad to me, thats just the type of person iam..am a product of my own enviornment.....whatever you do, is going to be on you, your the one that has to make that desicion. let it be one that suits you..stand up for yourself, ignore him.. tell on him, whatever you wanna do, do it and get him off your @$$... just take what ive been saying and just said into consideration. :)
Post by: eg6gsr on January 28, 2009, 12:53:43 PM
Post by: UltraRoboninja on January 28, 2009, 03:14:24 PM
This guy wants to get a reaction out of you. He wants you to get mad so he can laugh with his friends at your expense. There are only two things to do to get him to stop.
1. Ignore him. He'll try harder but if you keep ignoring him he'll get bored and move on. Remember, it's better to bend with the wind than to get snapped in half by it.
2. Outwit him. Say something unexpected, funny or clever that will make his friends laugh at him instead. If his every insult backfires, he'll eventually learn his lesson and leave you alone (I used this all the time in Junior High).
Post by: KenFan9276 - Member of CROM on January 28, 2009, 03:23:37 PM
Post by: C.R.O.M. jodafro619 on January 28, 2009, 04:37:20 PM
Post by: MirageAtoli on January 28, 2009, 04:50:16 PM
If that doesn't work call his or her parents and threaten to take legal action for the disenfranchising of your character and for social and psychological damages or some such statement.
That is my suggestion. Your results may vary.
Post by: AceWonder20 on January 28, 2009, 05:08:54 PM
Wow. I didnt think this would be a hot topic. Well, anyway. Thanks guys, I really appreciate you guys trying to help me. Im sure you guys have all dealt with assholes like this guy. Next time he tries to f**k me (be an @$$) Ill try doing that "You wish I was gay" thing. But, I was looking for some insults, Ya know. So If you guys got some, post em'. Peace.If u want some insults post a pic of the guy. We'll have a good 5 pages of insults for ya. :thumbsup:
Discreetly record the audio of him harassing you repeatedly and schedule a meeting with your dean/principle.Snitchin is bad enough, but wearing a wire, thats crossin the line.
Post by: Spidermew on January 28, 2009, 05:18:26 PM
If u want some insults post a pic of the guy. We'll have a good 5 pages of insults for ya. :thumbsup:
Snitchin is bad enough, but wearing a wire, thats crossin the line.
There is nothing wrong with "Snitchin" or "wearing a wire"
Unless your a criminal who's got something to hide lol.
Post by: AceWonder20 on January 28, 2009, 05:39:21 PM
There is nothing wrong with "Snitchin" or "wearing a wire"Or if he wants to avoid violence, like you. People hate being snitched on more than anything else, from my experience.
Unless your a criminal who's got something to hide lol.
Post by: MirageAtoli on January 28, 2009, 05:48:45 PM
In hindsight that may not be a very good idea.
If a user is consulting an online forum for advice, the situation must be pretty dire.
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 28, 2009, 07:55:01 PM
There is nothing wrong with "Snitchin" or "wearing a wire"
Unless your a criminal who's got something to hide lol.
LOL! Have u ever heard da phrase snitches get stiches? Man snitchin will get u killed or beat up faster then actually beatin da guy up... Like today for example my bro is on probation and the cops lied to a gang saying he was snitchin even though my bro was never around when they did illegal stuff so the cops lied to get the gang to squeal... The guy saw my bro and wanted to fight him cuz he actually was dum enough to belive wat da cops said... He probably knew he couldnt take my bro so he just got in his car and left who knows wat will happen now.. Belive me the last thing u want to do is snitch that really pisses ppl off it will get u hurt man.... Stand up for yourself but dont snitch..
Post by: Rage on January 28, 2009, 08:07:36 PM
LOL! Have u ever heard da phrase snitches get stiches? Man snitchin will get u killed or beat up faster then actually beatin da guy up... Like today for example my bro is on probation and the cops lied to a gang saying he was snitchin even though my bro was never around when they did illegal stuff so the cops lied to get the gang to squeal... The guy saw my bro and wanted to fight him cuz he actually was dum enough to belive wat da cops said... He probably knew he couldnt take my bro so he just got in his car and left who knows wat will happen now.. Belive me the last thing u want to do is snitch that really pisses ppl off it will get u hurt man.... Stand up for yourself but dont snitch..
Yes Nutty is telling the true. Snitching is actually one of the number 1 rules of the streets u don't break.
In sum places after snitching getting ur bum kick is a blessing, getting off easy. In a lot of places Death or serious injury is the cost of snitching.
Just man up and confront the bully.
Edit:
I know i shouldn't influence bad behavior but if he's a lot bigger then u, u dont have to fight fare. Just let him start picking on u and when he pushes u or just touch you in a way that is harmful or reason to attack bam he knock down with sum type of object.
I street fight, i dont fight clean. I just got one rule. That being let them make the first move cuz i no they aint going to land it os i can use self defense as cop out. Ive done this 4 20+ years. never lost, only ran from one, and never arrested/charged.
Post by: That Mugen Guy on January 28, 2009, 08:35:34 PM
Yes Nutty is telling the true. Snitching is actually one of the number 1 rules of the streets u don't break.
In sum places after snitching getting ur bum kick is a blessing, getting off easy. In a lot of places Death or serious injury is the cost of snitching.
Just man up and confront the bully.
Edit:
I know i shouldn't influence bad behavior but if he's a lot bigger then u, u dont have to fight fare. Just let him start picking on u and when he pushes u or just touch you in a way that is harmful or reason to attack bam he knock down with sum type of object.
I street fight, i dont fight clean. I just got one rule. That being let them make the first move cuz i no they aint going to land it os i can use self defense as cop out. Ive done this 4 20+ years. never lost, only ran from one, and never arrested/charged.
^^(PM)^ or go for soft parts of the body like the side of ur head the temple, the nose, the throat just don't hit to hard, jabs to the kidneys, or get under the person's arms somehow and tackle from the waist, just don't hit the nuts though that's wrong
Post by: Rygelseid on January 28, 2009, 09:19:43 PM
I'm not downing anyone's advice here (which are all good), But if you want someone off your back, you better put them on theirs. There's all types of things that can happen with this situation. He can continue to be bullied til more people on that bus want to get in on the "fun". So you need to drop this guy cuz he's not goona stop. Trust me, that bully will rethink stuff when he's trying to call you a fag with a mouth full of blood.i agree
you need to man up
f**k insults bro
stand up for yourself
or else he'll keep on you
Post by: Spidermew on January 28, 2009, 09:47:25 PM
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Have u ever heard da phrase snitches get stiches?No.
You know you can ask the cops for protection if you feal your life is in danger for providing information that will bring criminals to justice. If the streets are so dangerous and rough, then get off of them. If everyone answers their problems with violence, you'll become someone's problem and they'll try to solve you the same way. You know what goes arround, comes arround, so why put out that violent energy in the first place?
Post by: eg6gsr on January 28, 2009, 10:29:09 PM
p.s.
another thing I thought of was what if putty is fighting him and winning and he just has "those types of friends" you know that ones that will jump in if there friend is getting bet up and just smash.....just more things to think about
Post by: [Asian-Jesus] on January 28, 2009, 11:05:30 PM
No.
You know you can ask the cops for protection if you feal your life is in danger for providing information that will bring criminals to justice. If the streets are so dangerous and rough, then get off of them. If everyone answers their problems with violence, you'll become someone's problem and they'll try to solve you the same way. You know what goes arround, comes arround, so why put out that violent energy in the first place?
You sound like those guys that have had VERY sheltered lives. 8=|
Post by: Spidermew on January 28, 2009, 11:13:48 PM
You sound like those guys that have had VERY sheltered lives. 8=|
Shelterd? No. Ive had a very strange life. Dont be judgemental tward me and assume things just cuz you dont like my views on things.
Post by: Angsty Meier Link on January 29, 2009, 08:15:38 AM
First off, is the bus the only time you see this kid? If so I would just think about being a bit more mature than him and ignoring it. I know you think your being made to look like a fool, but really, none of what happens now is going to matter when you get out of school. Don't think of it in terms of, I need a comeback for his insults, don't play into his game. Don't let him see that he's getting to you. Thats what he wants, to mess with your head, so just be cool, maybe say that his immature crap can't hurt you. If you really need him to back off, tell him to go eff himself and that your sick of his childish mouth. Tell him to shut up and stop being an bunghole. Past that, you really can't control other peoples actions. You just don't let them affect you, don't give him that power.
Now I don't know if your a physically weak person, but if it turns out that you do have to stand up for yourself in a physical way, a little trick I learned, and it's especially perfect for jerkoffs like this, spit in his face. I'm serious, hock a nasty one right in his face. It will confuse, distract and humiliate him. And then kick him in the balls as hard as you can and then just start swinging for the fences. Put something like a lighter or a roll of pennies in your fist, anything similar in size, to make your punches hit harder and it helps your hand from breaking.
Short of all this, you can probably go tell someone. Go to a teacher you trust and tell them about this. Ask them to help, I'm sure they will. I know school is a horrible thing in these situations, but just let it make your character, not break it.
Post by: mastamasta on January 29, 2009, 09:13:08 AM
Post by: eg6gsr on January 29, 2009, 11:09:02 AM
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 29, 2009, 11:23:59 AM
No.
You know you can ask the cops for protection if you feal your life is in danger for providing information that will bring criminals to justice. If the streets are so dangerous and rough, then get off of them. If everyone answers their problems with violence, you'll become someone's problem and they'll try to solve you the same way. You know what goes arround, comes arround, so why put out that violent energy in the first place?
Lol dont u know the cops dont give one poop about anyone? They wont protect you man and if u have to live like that just because u told on him its not worth it.... About people being so quick to shoot :-@ If they goin to do it then they goin to do it i be damned if i let him punk me just because i have the thought in the back of my head (o man he might shoot me) if ur in that state of mind ur going to let everyone punk you... And its not about looking like the hero its about shutting this guy up, i mean people get real real sensitive and scared when they get older because they were bullied as kids Cough* Virgina Tech* Cough... people who get fed up where there mind cant take it anymore will shoot up a school so with that being said u can insult him back if u want. But when it gets outta hand or he pushes u swing on him because i bet hes not going to expect it. People feed of of weakness so u cant show it, last thing u wanna be known as is the snitch...
Post by: Spidermew on January 29, 2009, 12:04:15 PM
Its just words, nothing to fight over. Its stupid to care so much about your pride, you dont care if you get killed over it. Ya know, some cops would care, ive met some good cops and bad cops, they are people to, ya cant hate them all just because you were rased to hate them.
There's no point in me trying to convince you, its like talking to a brick wall. So go ahead, puch someone for talking smack to you, when you get killed for that then you'll beleve me.
Post by: eg6gsr on January 29, 2009, 12:06:20 PM
About people being so quick to shoot :-@ If they goin to do it then they goin to do it i be damned if i let him punk me just because i have the thought in the back of my head (o man he might shoot me) if ur in that state of mind ur going to let everyone punk you... And its not about looking like the hero its about shutting this guy up, i mean people get real real sensitive and scared when they get older because they were bullied as kids Cough* Virgina Tech* Cough... people who get fed up where there mind cant take it anymore will shoot up a school so with that being said u can insult him back if u want. But when it gets outta hand or he pushes u swing on him because i bet hes not going to expect it. People feed of of weakness so u cant show it, last thing u wanna be known as is the snitch...
So by that statement you would rather take the chance of being shot then be punked o.O#.........Look I am not saying that the guy is going to come out of left field with a gun I am just putting up outcomes of what could happen due to fighting and that is a very real outcome. Getting someone to shutup by fighting them is not always going to happen and most of the time that is never the end of it cause I plenty of friends that have the mind state that "if you beat me up that I'm coming back for more" and I am sure most of you do to and again I say that none of us know what kinda person this guy is. Also alot of you have a very high level of pride and not alot of reason behind your words and well pride for the most part gets you into trouble.
so silly you do what is going to work best for you and if thats taking it to words then do it, if its letting a adult know then that is fine and if its come to blows then that is just fine and make sure you can win that fight but what ever you choose just make sure you are ready for what ever outcome happens and that you can handle that outcome
haha mew got to the pride thing while I was posting
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 29, 2009, 12:16:35 PM
So by that statement you would rather take the chance of being shot then be punked o.O#.........Look I am not saying that the guy is going to come out of left field with a gun I am just putting up outcomes of what could happen due to fighting and that is a very real outcome. Getting someone to shutup by fighting them is not always going to happen and most of the time that is never the end of it cause I plenty of friends that have the mind state that "if you beat me up that I'm coming back for more" and I am sure most of you do to and again I say that none of us know what kinda person this guy is. Also alot of you have a very high level of pride and not alot of reason behind your words and well pride for the most part gets you into trouble.
so silly you do what is going to work best for you and if thats taking it to words then do it, if its letting a adult know then that is fine and if its come to blows then that is just fine and make sure you can win that fight but what ever you choose just make sure you are ready for what ever outcome happens and that you can handle that outcome
haha mew got to the pride thing while I was posting
Well about the being "Raised" To hate cops thing what the hell lol? I was not raised to hate them u dont even know my parents, and u dont know how i was raised... I hate them because of how they act towards me and for the record i never been to jail and i dont have a record and they all still treat me like poop. And u guys have ur opinion if u want to live ur life bein stepped on thats up to u i rather die as a man then live as a coward... And i fear no man but god, So if u push to much on me im going to push back..Im not as violent as most people on here it takes a lot to get me mad but when i do get mad i will punch u in the jaw if u keep runnin ur mouf to much. Besides i plan on getting a gun legally so if he wants to come back and shoot i will be shootin back, and if he wants to get a gun now i could get one now if i wanted so it really dont bother me. If that guy shoots me there will be ppl on his @ss so watever. Im not bein narrow minded but i belive that all ppl are equal letting someone punk you shows dominence and i only have one person above me, And thats god.
Post by: SPOOKY77 on January 29, 2009, 12:25:49 PM
Post by: SPOOKY77 on January 29, 2009, 12:34:18 PM
Post by: Spidermew on January 29, 2009, 12:43:12 PM
Well about the being "Raised" To hate cops thing what the hell lol? I was not raised to hate them u dont even know my parents, and u dont know how i was raised... I hate them because of how they act towards me and for the record i never been to jail and i dont have a record and they all still treat me like poop. And u guys have ur opinion if u want to live ur life bein stepped on thats up to u i rather die as a man then live as a coward... And i fear no man but god, So if u push to much on me im going to push back..Im not as violent as most people on here it takes a lot to get me mad but when i do get mad i will punch u in the jaw if u keep runnin ur mouf to much. Besides i plan on getting a gun legally so if he wants to come back and shoot i will be shootin back, and if he wants to get a gun now i could get one now if i wanted so it really dont bother me. If that guy shoots me there will be ppl on his @ss so watever. Im not bein narrow minded but i belive that all ppl are equal letting someone punk you shows dominence and i only have one person above me, And thats god.
You talk of god being the only one above you, but do you know god at all? Does god tell you, "Go forth and smite all who would do you wrong," does he nutpatch?
No!
Instead
"Love others as well as you love yourself.”
"Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone."
God dosnt want you to act like a thug and beatdown anyone who does you ill. He wants you to forgive them.
God is alll about forgivenes dude. And if he's the only one above you as you say, and he can forgive those lesser then him, why cant you?
Post by: SPOOKY77 on January 29, 2009, 12:44:24 PM
You talk of god being the only one above you, but do you know god at all? Does god tell you, "Go forth and smite all who would do you wrong," does he nutpatch?
No!
Instead
"Love others as well as you love yourself.”
"Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone."
God dosnt want you to act like a thug and beatdown anyone who does you ill. He wants you to forgive them.
God is alll about forgivenes dude. And if he's the only one above you as you say, and he can forgive those lesser then him, why cant you?
I really hope ignoring the guy works...nice words Mew :)
Post by: R.I.C.O - Teros on January 29, 2009, 01:22:06 PM
I remember having this one punk butt kid piss me off in high school to the point where I got arrested. I remember he was yelling insults to all the students out the window of the bus. I told him to stop and he called me some stupid name "Star Command". So I got up and punched him. I got ISS for a whole week.
The following year he made a joke saying he shot 2Pac on his anniversary day. So I decided to mess with him and say I was gonna beat his butt (was over the internet). I then saw him outside walking around cause he was scared of me. I talked trash to him for jokes... but the next morning it wasn't jokes cause he called the cops and I was arrested.
Now before these two things happened, this dude has done things to me in the past to escalade this. He stole my sisters Xbox controllers, bike and other things, he even threatened to hit my then girlfriend. He's done so much that it built up and wanted me to do that.
In the end, it wasn't even worth it. Cause later he moved to Florida and got hit by a car from someone he was talking trash to down there. Karma, right?
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 29, 2009, 01:26:57 PM
You talk of god being the only one above you, but do you know god at all? Does god tell you, "Go forth and smite all who would do you wrong," does he nutpatch?
No!
Instead
"Love others as well as you love yourself.”
"Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone."
God dosnt want you to act like a thug and beatdown anyone who does you ill. He wants you to forgive them.
God is alll about forgivenes dude. And if he's the only one above you as you say, and he can forgive those lesser then him, why cant you?
I see what ur saying but im only human theres only so much i can take.. And i do forgive theres a lot of ppl that i was about to beat up for talking to much but we are friends now.. Like i said it takes a lot for me to get angry so if someone gets me to the angry point then ur doing too much. As far as loving others i have been a lot more patient now that i really talk to god and all and i even pray for ppl who annoyme but still its something i cant do is get punked.
Oh And about the cops i dont like the way there putting my brothers life on the line talkin about he snitched on the shady mob gang... And my bro works around they area where they are hes pissed at da cops also.... Thats why i hate cops so dont ever say that i was raised to hate something i take that very personally cuz my parents never raised me to hate anything..
Post by: b.easy on January 29, 2009, 02:31:12 PM
You talk of god being the only one above you, but do you know god at all? Does god tell you, "Go forth and smite all who would do you wrong," does he nutpatch?Actually, yes he does, if you've read the Old Testament. Using religion as a justification for non violence can only go so far, especially because it's one of the major causes of violence in the world. :|
As far as the topic, I really don't know anymore.
Things have changed so much since I've been in elementary/middle/high school, kids like to bring guns into schools now and every school is now required to have a small army of police and enough metal detecting equipment to make the county court blush.
Post by: eg6gsr on January 29, 2009, 03:33:43 PM
Things have changed so much since I've been in elementary/middle/high school, kids like to bring guns into schools now and every school is now required to have a small army of police and enough metal detecting equipment to make the county court blush.
which is why I stated that fighting needs to be a last resort. Nutpacth I understand that you are human we all are and there is only so much anyone will take before they lash out and that is fine but fighting should never be the first answer to any problem cause belive me I used to think the same way until I got my police record for fighting and was put in the holding tank for 8 hours and that was bad enough. So I will say again let your reason make the choice for you and not your pride cause I dont think you want to get punked in jail.
Post by: mastamasta on January 29, 2009, 03:50:27 PM
Allot of yall put too much into your own stupid pride. So what if someone makes fun of you, it aint worth nothing.
Its just words, nothing to fight over. Its stupid to care so much about your pride, you dont care if you get killed over it. Ya know, some cops would care, ive met some good cops and bad cops, they are people to, ya cant hate them all just because you were rased to hate them.
There's no point in me trying to convince you, its like talking to a brick wall. So go ahead, puch someone for talking smack to you, when you get killed for that then you'll beleve me.
im sorry no disrespect, but your from san pedro cali....wtf do you know about somebody talking smack and trying to kill you for standing up for yourself. i understand your point, but sometimes you have to do what you have to do. regardless.
its not about having a backbone its about not getting into more trouble for trying to look like the hero. Most if not all schools have a "zero tolerance" level now which means any fight gets charges pressed and jail time(my family is going through that system right now) and then there is the "outside school" trouble which well no one wants. I have done my share of fighting won and lost some and from my experience fighting only leads to more trouble/abuse especially when it comes to school yard fights cause you can't look like the hero if you try and fight the bully and get beat up in the process and honestly the only time beating up the bully and the problem stops is in movies and elementary school.
its about having some backbone. for someone saying he has been in fights won some and lost some, you cant sit here and tell someone not too, thats making yourself into a hypocrite.
i can clearly see who has been picked on there whole life and didnt stand up for themselves. some of your comments show it.
why are people bringing "god" into this? dont waste your time with such non-sense, nobody cares.
any logical person who know violence is bad. god doesnt need to explain this to us, nor does the old testament. but not standing up for yourself is crazy. lol your going to ignore someone harassing you? come on now. its not pride, its saving your self a piece of mind. fighting is not the best way, but if its what he needs to do then let him do it.
i dont know why everybody is so uptight about this, we all have our opinions, nobodies is the right one, his is. im not hating on anybody for not wanting to fight, but nor would tell him not too, if he had too.
Post by: Spidermew on January 29, 2009, 04:07:11 PM
Actually, yes he does, if you've read the Old Testament. Using religion as a justification for non violence can only go so far, especially because it's one of the major causes of violence in the world. :|
As far as the topic, I really don't know anymore.
Things have changed so much since I've been in elementary/middle/high school, kids like to bring guns into schools now and every school is now required to have a small army of police and enough metal detecting equipment to make the county court blush.
The old testament was for people living before the time of christ.
When he came down and died on the cross for our sins, we entered a new covanent, and were no longer bound by the old laws. Now all we have to do is accept jesus as the son of god, beleve in him and repent of our sins and we are saved.
im sorry no disrespect, but your from san pedro cali....wtf do you know about somebody talking smack and trying to kill you for standing up for yourself. i understand your point, but sometimes you have to do what you have to do. regardless.Ever have the FBI come and protect your life for 3 days because you and your whole family were being marked for murder by the local KKK?
No? Back off my life pall, you have no idea where ive lived and what ive gone though.
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its about having some backbone. for someone saying he has been in fights won some and lost some, you cant sit here and tell someone not too, thats making yourself into a hypocrite.By backbone you mean pride? Pride is empty.
And becides, I said fighting was a last resort, for those extreme times.
Becides, a hypocrite is just an actor.
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i can clearly see who has been picked on there whole life and didnt stand up for themselves. some of your comments show it.Yeah ive been picked on allot, but i dont have to make things worse for myself by trying to get physical with someone, thats just stupid, you dont know who's packing weapons or not. Ive been in lots of schools were there were attacks with weapons, and shards of broken glass, and kids having to go to the hospital, all because of someones foolish pride.
Again, you dont know me, you dont know what ive had to go though.
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why are people bringing "god" into this? dont waste your time with such non-sense, nobody cares.Why us who are talking about it care, isnt it obvious?
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any logical person who know violence is bad. god doesnt need to explain this to us, nor does the old testament. but not standing up for yourself is crazy. lol your going to ignore someone harassing you? come on now. its not pride, its saving your self a piece of mind. fighting is not the best way, but if its what he needs to do then let him do it.That Peice of mind your talking about, that is pride, look it up dude.
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i dont know why everybody is so uptight about this, we all have our opinions, nobodies is the right one, his is. im not hating on anybody for not wanting to fight, but nor would tell him not too, if he had too.
If you dont want to come off as hate, dont assume things about someone's life you dont know.
I dont have the time to give my life story and why my hardships should have jsut as much credit as anyone elses.
Post by: mastamasta on January 29, 2009, 04:30:53 PM
The old testament was for people living before the time of christ.
When he came down and died on the cross for our sins, we entered a new covanent, and were no longer bound by the old laws. Now all we have to do is accept jesus as the son of god, beleve in him and repent of our sins and we are saved.
Ever have the FBI come and protect your life for 3 days because you and your whole family were being marked for murder by the local KKK?
No? Back off my life pall, you have no idea where ive lived and what ive gone though.
By backbone you mean pride? Pride is empty.
And becides, I said fighting was a last resort, for those extreme times.
Becides, a hypocrite is just an actor.
Yeah ive been picked on allot, but i dont have to make things worse for myself by trying to get physical with someone, thats just stupid, you dont know who's packing weapons or not. Ive been in lots of schools were there were attacks with weapons, and shards of broken glass, and kids having to go to the hospital, all because of someones foolish pride.
Again, you dont know me, you dont know what ive had to go though.
Why us who are talking about it care, isnt it obvious?
That Peice of mind your talking about, that is pride, look it up dude.
If you dont want to come off as hate, dont assume things about someone's life you dont know.
I dont have the time to give my life story and why my hardships should have jsut as much credit as anyone elses.
wow. you sure thought that through :D
The old testament was for people living before the time of christ.
When he came down and died on the cross for our sins, we entered a new covanent, and were no longer bound by the old laws. Now all we have to do is accept jesus as the son of god, beleve in him and repent of our sins and we are saved.
blah blah blah
Ever have the FBI come and protect your life for 3 days because you and your whole family were being marked for murder by the local KKK?
No? Back off my life pall, you have no idea where ive lived and what ive gone though.
no i dont know you, and you dont know me. but i can tell you that san pedro cali isnt the place where you have to watch your back everytime you walk down the street.. regardless of what you been through, that fact remains as truth.
By backbone you mean pride? Pride is empty.
And becides, I said fighting was a last resort, for those extreme times.
Becides, a hypocrite is just an actor.
a hypocrite isnt an actor. its someone who says one thing and does another
>:-(-| (you spelt besides wrong)
If you dont want to come off as hate, dont assume things about someone's life you dont know.
I dont have the time to give my life story and why my hardships should have jsut as much credit as anyone elses.
i didnt want to come off as hate, but i can see thats how your taking it.
nobody said anybodys hardships is not accounted for, some are worse than others, but we all experience them and its that experience that makes it so defining. im not gonna sit here and debate on who's life is harder. and its shame what happened to you with the KKK. im not downsizing that experience, who am i to do so? im just saying YOUR opinion is YOURS, its not the right one nor is it wrong.
everyones views are different.
Post by: shitakimushrooms1990 on January 29, 2009, 04:43:24 PM
Post by: eg6gsr on January 29, 2009, 04:45:57 PM
its about having some backbone. for someone saying he has been in fights won some and lost some, you cant sit here and tell someone not too, thats making yourself into a hypocrite.
that is not called being a hypocrite that is called giving advice through experience kinda like going to jail and then not telling someone else to do the same because its not good and if you read any of my post I have never said that fighting should never happen but if you can avoid it then do so because your "piece of mind" is not going to do you any good if you end up in jail or hurt.
not standing up for yourself is crazy. lol your going to ignore someone harassing you? come on now. its not pride, its saving your self a piece of mind. fighting is not the best way, but if its what he needs to do then let him do it.
i dont know why everybody is so uptight about this, we all have our opinions, nobodies is the right one, his is. im not hating on anybody for not wanting to fight, but nor would tell him not too, if he had too.
who ever said that standing up for yourself mean you have to fightsome one cause lasted I checked there are many ways to stand up for yourself and not throw blows. And no one here is really uptight about fighting its just when someone asks for advice for a problem tell them to just fight the person is not a good answer especially when you know nothing about the other person that can get someone killed
Post by: That Mugen Guy on January 29, 2009, 04:51:24 PM
I'm not no admin or anything but this is beginning to get a tad out of hand, don't ya think?
lol this thread went so off topic. It went from giving advice on what to do to the guy to fighting, to when not to fight, to personal information. Am sure Silly Puddy didn't read half off this and is still tryin what he's accustomed to :-$
Post by: Savage Henry on January 29, 2009, 07:00:54 PM
lol this thread went so off topic. It went from giving advice on what to do to the guy to fighting, to when not to fight, to personal information. Am sure Silly Puddy didn't read half off this and is still tryin what he's accustomed to :-$
Read all of it.
Post by: MaverickZr0 on January 29, 2009, 07:07:09 PM
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 29, 2009, 07:27:09 PM
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If you dont want to come off as hate, dont assume things about someone's life you dont know.
I dont have the time to give my life story and why my hardships should have jsut as much credit as anyone elses.
Kinda reminds me of how u assumed that i was raised to hate the police when really when i was little i use to look up to them.
and i also dont respect the fact that u asked me if i even knew god of course i know him thats like a slap in the face...
Anyways back on topic man the choice is up to u, weather u want to fight or throw insults back in forth. My father told me getting ur self all mad by throwing insults back and forth is not worth it... If u get to the point where u feel like u want to cry that means that he has gone to far and must be stopped at that moment. I understand that people fear that someone has a gun,
II Timothy 1:7 "For God did not give us a spirit of timidity (of cowardice, of craven and cringing and fawning fear), but [He has given us a spirit] of power and of love and of calm and well-balanced mind and discipline and self-control." We do not want to be driven by this fawning, craven, cringing fear. We want to have these demons driven out of us in Jesus' Name.
Basically saying for those who say well he might have a gun, you dont let someone punk you because you fear what they might do to you, You do whatever you have to do to put a end to it, Snitch if dats what ur goin to do even though thats not a good idea (and still showing that you cant handle a problem thats not too big for u which is still showing some bit of fear.) but dont be a coward i suggest you stand up for yourself like a man..
Post by: C.R.O.M. jodafro619 on January 29, 2009, 09:19:38 PM
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 29, 2009, 10:32:22 PM
Yo.... I'm just letting you know from personal experience. If you sit there and ignore this guy, I promise you, HE WILL HOOK OFF ON YOU!!! You need to stand your ground don't let people punk you. I don't where everyone live, but where I'm from, If someone comes to your door looking for a fight, you take it to them. But to get the good guys here off my back LOL, Tell the whoever is your aide on the bus (Or I can safely assume that there isn't one) or your principal. And if all your line of emergancy don't come through, THEN YOU WHOOP HIS @%%!!! The one thing people have to understand is bullies like this got no heart. Is this the extent of his power? Then he definitely ain't built for anything else. OOOH he might have a gun, please. This guy has no heart to even shoot himself. Handle your Business. If I had a son and he came into the house telling me he was being bullied, I'll take him over to the lil punk and they gonna scrap. And I'll tell the lil b@#tard go get your Dad, He probably soft like you LOL!!. I'm sorry people on this thread. I live in nyc and this a no cry zone!!!:w00t: ^^(PM)^ ^:)^ Im from cali and its da same way down here u dont let anyone punk you.. Its never ok to just sit there and get bullied ppl talkin about u might get beat up, who cares u dont win em all like bruce lee he didnt just get amazing by winning all fights he lost a lot then learned from his fighting mistakes. I have a idea man take a Karate class or take boxing lessons that helps too..
Post by: eg6gsr on January 30, 2009, 01:10:54 AM
Post by: SPOOKY77 on January 30, 2009, 01:48:46 AM
guys it does not matter where you are form a bully is a bully its not like just because where you are from makes the bullies that much tuffer or anything
True ^^(PM)^
Post by: AceWonder20 on January 30, 2009, 03:15:09 AM
Read all of it.Did u try anything? Hell, try talking to the guy. Some ppl back down if u grill them.
Post by: Superjoker on January 30, 2009, 06:52:08 AM
hey silly putty tell us wats happen man. has he said anythin? have u tried anythin?
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Post by: mastamasta on January 30, 2009, 08:58:25 AM
hey silly putty tell us wats happen man. has he said anythin? have u tried anythin?
:-?? :-?? :-??
lol.....word, everyone is giving there opinions and i havent seen him respond to ANY of them. lol
were sitting here fighting amongst ourselves, oppose to hearing you out...so.....what happened?? :-??
Post by: Nutty-Da-Kid on January 30, 2009, 11:17:48 AM
guys it does not matter where you are form a bully is a bully its not like just because where you are from makes the bullies that much tuffer or anything
True but to be hosest most bullies are either big (and usually cant fight they just try to atimidate u with size) or run their mouf to much just cuz they pick on someone dont mean they can fight he needs to learn some punishment i dont care where a bully is from im not gettin bullied by anyone.